Life is hard

We set goals, we mess up our goal, we reset our goals and it goes on and on and on.  Life is hard.  Things happen in our life to derail us from our goals.  One thing I have learned is I am responsible for everything I do.  If I am derailed it is only because I chose to be derailed.  We can never know what people are truly thinking.  We can not ever know what is really going on in their life.  9 times out of 10 people are not thinking about you the way you think they are.  It is all from our perception.  It is all from what we are thinking about ourselves or our life.  Most of the time those people are worried about what you are thinking.  Hahaha . Life is hard if that is what we make it.  How do we find joy in the journey when everything seems to be crashing around us.? You know the best thing to do is go cry it out and then look at what you are thinking about the situation.  Write it down, all of it.  Every little thought you had about the situation and then let it go.  You can't what people think about you or anything else.  All you can do is try your best and be kind.  If people have a hard time with you then let them, how sad is their life if they have to dwell on what you did or didn't do.  Put a smile on your face and be happy because guess what life isn't so hard if you try to be happy.
Just my thoughts this find Sunday evening.  One of my favorite 80s quotes is DON'T WORRY BE HAPPY! 😊You know you sang the song just now.

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